Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 21, 2015

[403] Ponderando Sobre Las Criticas

En lo que puedo escribir formalmente en el blog les dejo este entremes.

Adelantando que recien mande al cuerno el nesting de articulos previos.  Los niveles de toxicidad ya eran demasiado elevados. Estoy en un periodo de transicion.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/co-parenting-after-divorce/201307/birds-nest-co-parenting-arrangements

Estaba como el cuento del asno, el anciano y el niño...
http://adrianherz.com/post/6881820976/el-asno-el-anciano-y-el-nino-cuento-con

Pero a lo hecho pecho, a seguir mis menesteres que son demasiados detalles y el tiempo es poco...
Les dejo con estas dos infograficas sobre los haters y criticones a favor y en contra de lo que he decidido por estos años...


 
Palabras con luz...
Fuente:
 

http://nymag.com/thecut/2013/01/haters-gonna-hate-whats-a-woman-to-do.html

Creo que este loop de Sardonyx esta semana en Steven Universe resume el conflicto que he tenido que pasar los pasados meses....

Monday, April 20, 2015

[396] PTSD - Taking Care of Isabella

Isabella was the robotic overlord assigned to my son as a Graduation Requisite for the Health Class.  The robot was assigned during this busy weekend to simulate the experience of managing a newborn baby (via a doll that was definitely in the 4 - 6 months weight and size).  Since this is not logic based the sequences were illogically based on the whims of the computer programmer.

The important feature is that the robot would give 3 - 4 of these sequences at least once between 12-1 am and again between 3-5 am.  Then it would take these 3-4 hour breaks.
I do understand the lesson being taught here.  But my son is on PTSD.  He'd cry when for instance the robotic overlord would make these faint sounds in a room full of people.  My son would do the logic thing.  "PLEASE!!!! CALM DOWN PEOPLE!!! MY BABY IS CRYING AND I CAN'T HEAR"  And would receive the expected result... [NO RESPONSE].
I kindly showed him to keep his cool and find a silent spot.  To not be blinded by his nerves.  But he is 15.  Hard headed.  After going ballistic he would then apologize.
http://www.municipiodebayamon.com/servicios-municipales/educacion/proyecto-paternidad-responsable/
I'm starting to get buged to these graduation requisites.  It is like the Community Service obligations, the obligations of making videos. That time where Mildred and me had to take 1 24 hour course from the Departamento de La Familia called Constructores de Paz.  It was so good that it stopped us from getting divorced two years later (not).  It was good orientation and I have applied the material on other things related to the youth groups and others I have been working on.
But anyway, this type of course is really needed.  Even more than the darned Perspectiva de enero that the gay community keeps imposing on the rest of the human race. I'd also wish that they would provide shop and domestic economy to all regardless of gender.
Closing for now with some pictures of things I have been doing with William.

[1] Test Drive for the Drawing to be Used for his Confirmation. Still has some more painting pending but it is done.
 [2] Have been thinking on concept art for the upcoming star wars exhibit in Mondo Bizarro. Several ideas come to mind, but they won't be so large scaled as the one above (heard the limit is 24 inches)...

 
[3] In other issues. Things remain steady at the house.  Although sometimes (several times per week) I wonder if I did the right choice...Then I look at William's needs and I ignore the thorns.

[4] Penrose Tiling
Have been thinking on that geometric design for the room walls.  Originally we were thinking on Penrose Tiling then opted for something simple we saw on Froyo World Hato Rey.



[5] Been busy, thorns and all
I have been very busy from work.  Last week I was exploring a site counting trees for a mitigation project.  The arborist did the work, I think all I did was carry all the thorns and seeds on my clothes while I escorted him on the site.
 
Churn out.
 

Wednesday, April 8, 2015

[395] Aspectos Psicologicos y Aceptacion Transexualismo en Nuevas Series Animadas


Previamente habia discutido que las escuelas modernas adolecen de presentar los estudiantes los aspectos generales de apreciacion de las artes combinado con la precision de las ciencias.  Ese conocomiento combinado es muy necesario en estas eras que nos toca vivir.  Hay excepciones y aunque no me gusta la interpretacion universalista que los LGBTT dan a los personajes o acciones de algunas de las nuevas series si se ve que le estan dando un pensamiento logico a la descripcion y ejecucion de los personajes.




Ya habia mencionado Inside Out, previamente habia mencionado Adventure Time.  Ahora en especifico me ha llamado la atencion la serie de Steven Universe.  En apariencia infantil pero tiene cierta profundidad y logica, combinado de unos libretos e historias bien desarrolladas.

http://alcantarillaalquimica.blogspot.com/2014/12/386-pixar-se-adentra-la-psicologia.html

En este articulo se mencionaba lo dificil de salir del molde de series animadas con temas no convencionales.  Obviamente desde el punto de vista de perspectiva de genero.  Sin embargo, un tiempo despues comienzan a indicar que nuevas series retan esa norma, y estan siendo populares.  Mi deseo de ver Steven Universe radica en las buenas resenas que he visto relacionado al arte, la animacion y los guiones.
 


Lo de las implicaciones homosexuales o amistades igualando romances no es nuevo.  Las novelas graficas japonesas tienen generos dedicados a cada uno de esos temas como presento en varios articulos debajo relacionado a series como Sailor Moon o Cardcaptor Sakura donde las amistades de los protagonistas usualmente tienen atraccion romantica con los protagonistas como explicacion de su fandom...  Sin embargo, no lo veo como algo necesariamente negativo. 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yuri_(genre)

Despues que la historia sea buena.  Ese es el caso de Heart of Thomas un compendio de Moto Haio de los 70.  La historia es toda una novela pero los triangulos amorosos son entre varones de un instituto...
 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_no_Shinz%C5%8D
http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/13033970-the-heart-of-thomas
http://www.theory.org.uk/ctr-rol4.htm
http://www.animenewsnetwork.com/bbs/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=20894

Cambiando de tema a Steven Universe.  Me puse al dia con los 50 y pico de cortos durante el fin de semana santa, entre viaje y viaje.  Mas que la connotacion LGBTT me gusto como cada uno de las gemas de la serie reflejan etapas de desarrollo de emociones humanas hasta llegar a un quinto nivel, de transcendencia. 
 
I could go with the allegory up to a point.  Pero seamos claros estos son evidentemente las acciones de gemas asexuales y de generos intercambiables.  Eso no extrapola a seres biologicos regulares con evidentes diferencias de sexo...  Ademas, por Dios, es una fantasia no una extrapolacion a la realidad...
Human Emotional Development Theory in Steven Universe

Co Dependence
Counter Dependence
Group Dependence
Independence
Transcendence

Mas de esa discusion en los articulos debajo...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steven_Universe
http://www.wired.com/2015/02/steven-universe-best-show-youre-not-watching/
http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/2e4gmx/i_am_rebecca_sugar_creator_of_steven_universe_and

A fin de cuentas. 
(1) Me gusta que los escritores, musicalistas y animadores esten haciendo un mejor trabajo en estas series que en apariencia son simples pero contienen profundidad.
(2) me preocupa que lo hagan para entrar por la cocina analiogias y discusiones donde se discuta asexualismo, pansexualismo y todas estas aberraciones como normales.  Esas discusiones son ciertas pero solo desde el marco teorico o fantasioso de la serie.
Anyway, me imagino que la logica es que mientras la perspectiva de genero sea rentable le debemos sacar el jugo.

Disculpen lo crudo de este borrador de escrito.  Solo queria compartir algunas de esas actividades que he estado haciendo.  En otros temas estamos trabajando un 4x6 para la confirmacion de mi hijo y mi sobrina ahora en mayo. William lo esta pintando.  Algunos esquematicos en mi tumblr...
http://alcantarillaalquimica.tumblr.com/

Cierro por hoy.  Estoy demasiado atareado...

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

[394] keeping up with the resonance

intermedio. no tengo tiempo de acutalizar el blog.
como no tengo tiempo para escribir les incluyo esta breve discusion relacionada a la resonancia.  Esta resonancia es otra analogia de las finanzas de puerto rico.  malas decisiones sobre malas decisiones generan un efecto multiplicador mucho mayor de lo que se considero inicialmente...
lo del lenguaje al final relacionaba con el doble mensaje de la perspectiva de genero.  Donde IGUAL no es igual a SIMILAR a pesar de lo mucho que repitan.

Un paso atras.  La discusion relacionada a maquinas especiales y como la resonancia de las estructuras no aparenta coincidir con la termodinamica clasica.  Esta discusion fue de esas ingenieriles esotericos con ES, un colega que es ingeniero estructural...
Analizabamos el fenomeno de la frecuencia natural de resonancia de los materiales.  Buscando una explicacion que no rechace los hallazgos de termodinamica clasica que tanto defendemos los ingenieros...Para introduccion al tema, la resonancia de materiales explicados por hormigas...

http://www.science20.com/florilegium/blog/frequencies_disasters
Varios ejemplos clasicos explicados en lenguaje sencillo aqui.

relacionando la resonancia a diseno sismico y estructural.
http://www.plantengineering.com/single-article/understanding-of-resonance-essential-for-solving-vibration-problems/ff141e2eabacb111a88a491024f3ca9f.html


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mechanical_resonance

explicacion matematica de ondas aditivas
http://www.askamathematician.com/2013/08/q-can-resonance-destroy-anything-is-the-brown-note-possible/

interesante paper de como intentan incorporar la termodinamica (especificamente la entropia) para explicar la transferencia de energia tan grande que ocurre al estar en condiciones de resonancia natural de la estructura.
http://www.einsteinshiddenvariables.com/uploads/TheFallandRiseofResonanceScience.pdf

http://www.theguardian.com/theguardian/2000/jul/03/guardianletters5
interesante debate para estimular que se rompan filas mediante disonancia musical...

habia oido lo de resonancia con esto...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuning_fork
en mi caso me gustaba engolar notas graves en las escaleras para que hicieran eco...humming until it amplifies...
http://science.howstuffworks.com/tuning-fork1.htm

a fin de cuentas termine la discusion con ES diciendo que una rama (termodinamica) no necesariamente contradice la otra rama (quantica).  Lo necesario es entender como correlacionarlo, y esa correlacion es la entropia.  De cualquier manera es interesante las aplicaciones que pudiesen surgir pudiendo manipular mediante vibracion los objetos.
http://discaircraft.greyfalcon.us/Viktor%20Schauberger.htm

vortex impulsers to make flying saucers.  The concept ES was presenting me with...

en otros temas...completely irrelevant...explicando la manipulacion del lenguaje.
de donde sale esto...de la mentalidad dual que Mildred alega existe en el mundo. Dang!
https://exposingfeminism.wordpress.com/2008/09/15/language-manipulation/

http://www.mpi.nl/q-a/questions-and-answers/how-does-manipulating-through-language-work

https://malleryk.wordpress.com/writing-portfolio/academic-writing-sample/

http://www.mpi.nl/world/materials/publications/Levelt/Levelt_perspective1998.pdf

http://www.dadi.org/

http://www.dadi.org/who_is.htm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Language_deprivation_experiments

este en particular, consolando a uno de los evaluados ayer cuando le dije que su experimento no fallo, solo que debia modificar o modificar su hipotesis a una dosis mas baja (detalles despues).
http://itre.cis.upenn.edu/~myl/languagelog/archives/000078.html

bah.  esto no hace el mas minimo sentido.  luego quizas lo arregle.
churn out.

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

[393] Como Una Imagen Demuestra Que Nadie Sabe Teoria de Colores

Me llamaron disimuladamente para ver la mentada foto que ha invadido mis feeds. En esencia las personas ven mas uno u otro color.  Sin embargo fue solo un meme practico explicando teoria de color.  Les incluyo algunas buenas explicaciones relativas al tema y las implicaciones que tiene en la prensa, los medios escritos, etc.

By the way.  Yo vi la imagen como un blanco con tono azulado con bordes dorados.  Aunque al acercar la imagen pude observar el azul un poco mas fuerte aunque jamas como el color original que discutieron despues. 

Bueno cierro.

http://www.poynter.org/how-tos/advice/323629/the-lesson-from-the-dress-color-debate-that-every-journalist-needs-to-know/

http://xkcd.com/1492/
http://www.slate.com/blogs/business_insider/2015/02/27/blue_and_black_or_white_and_gold_the_two_women_behind_the_dress_definitively.html
http://nathanfairbairn.tumblr.com/post/112246531934/about-that-dress
http://comicsalliance.com/decoding-thedress-color-artist-nathan-fairbairn-makes-sense-of-the-madness/
http://www.colorbasics.com/Optical-Illusions/


https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=3135320170160028731#editor/target=post;postID=2215993377199755533
http://graphicdesign.stackexchange.com/questions/49000/how-can-the-dress-optical-illusion-be-accurately-reproduced-on-other-images
http://www.nerdist.com/2015/02/5-optical-illusions-that-show-you-why-your-brain-messes-with-the-dress/


Luego sigo discutiendo un poco con la manipulacion del lenguaje.  Una tecnica parecida pero que en vez de usar colores usa el valor escondido de las palabras.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

[307] Un Issue Peludo para el 2013

Miss Afrofinger
Comence a organizar mis notas para el 2013 y tropece con un articulo que me tiene intrigado.  Enfoca en las percepciones de modas y como los medios como la prensa, television y el word to mouth cambia las percepciones de lo que es bello y atractivo a lo que no lo es.  Comence esta idea basada en una busqueda aleatoria de la red de la epoca.

La ruta es enredada, enfoquemos por pedazos:
A Sanson le crecio el pelo y derribo el templo...

[1]  Cliches con las Pelirojas
De la misma manera que con las rubias o con el pelo malo o pasurin...Se crean estereotipos.  Cuando muchacho quede preocupado de que un documental que vi decia que los primeros cavernicolas veian con malos ojos a los rubios y los tiraban de lo alto de los montes.  Se que no es posible pero en aquel momento lo crei...

Pues algunos datos, hechos y curiosidades de las pelirojas aqui:
http://facts.randomhistory.com/redhead-facts.html

En realidad mi pelo es rojizo por momentos.  Cuando joven...ahora es canoso...

[2]  De Ahi Brinque a la Tendencia Moderna a la Depilacion Obsesiva
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2010-09-14/features/sc-fash-0913-shaving-20100913_1_shaving-strip-hair-body

La depilacion de piernas y axilas es una costumbre relativamente moderna.  Por que entonces la percepcion que oigo de radio y television es que estar completamente depilado es lo higienico y la norma?  Decidi indagar al respecto.  Del articulo de arriba:

But why do we recoil at the sight of a few follicles? When and why did women begin to strip hair from their bodies, anyway?
Historians are unable to pinpoint the first group of women to remove body hair, said Victoria Sherrow, author of "Encyclopedia of Hair: A Cultural History." Women in ancient Egypt used beeswax and depilatories made from an alkali, like quicklime, to remove leg hair, she said. Ancient Romans and Greeks used pumice to remove body hair.
"Some cultures regarded it as uncivilized, since body hair appears on animal bodies," said Sherrow. "The idea of a hairless body for American women developed between 1915 and 1945."
Many attribute the kickoff in 1915 to Gillette's Milady Decollete, "the first razor designed and marketed specifically for women, and was billed in the extensive national advertising campaign as the 'safest and most sanitary method of acquiring a smooth underarm,' " according to author Russell B. Adams Jr. in "King C. Gillette: The Man and His Wonderful Shaving Device."
The movement also took hold as sleeveless dresses and sheerer fabrics became fashionable and hemlines rose. Safety razors were also produced en masse.
"As the middle class grew, women's lives increasingly became defined by spending power and habits," wrote Jennifer Scanlon, professor of gender and women's studies at Bowdoin College, in her book "Inarticulate Longings: The Ladies' Home Journal, Gender, and the Promises of Consumer Culture."
It was the perfect storm for advertisers as magazines like Ladies' Home Journal and Harper's Bazaar flooded homes, not only informing, but shaping women's concepts of beauty.
"You see this kind of transformation of the female body — that women are increasingly to be looked at," Scanlon said of advertisements at the time. "There's sort of the promise that more and more women can gain access to beauty if they engage in these practices (like) shaving their armpits."

Como siempre...los medios y los negociantes crean moda para crear mercado...

http://history.barnard.edu/sites/default/files/inline/kirstenhansenthesis.pdf

Hay un adagio...
Where There is a Need, Create a Solution and Sell It.

Ahora es:
Create a Need, then sell the solution

Por ende las medicinas para enfermedades del primer mundo.  O productios como el iPhone (x+1), que es bota el iPhone x en cuanto salga la nueva version...

O sea la depilacion es algo para crear un negocio.  Pero de donde llego a los constantes brazilian wax que es la moda ahora?

[3]  La Obsesion de Querer Erradicar el Pelo del Cuerpo
http://theconversation.edu.au/bare-necessity-public-health-implications-of-removing-pubic-hair-8737

Esta obsesion tiene implicaciones.  Se presenta como antihigienico o poco salobre tener pelos en el cuerpo.  El nuevo ideal es estar completamente pelados.  El argumento entonces es que hay dos riesgos, uno de salud por mantener el pelo y otro los riesgos a la salud de la depilacion con cera, corte, etc. para detener el crecimiento natural de pelo...

Ese es el meollo del articulo previo...

What’s “normal” in the pubic hair landscape has changed considerably over the last 20 years. Research suggests that pubic hair removal is increasingly the norm in Australia, the United States, and the United Kingdom; but has been documented as early as Ancient Egypt.
Recent studies of hair removal in young Australian women show that almost 50% of female undergraduates remove most or all of their hair. This trend is also present in men: about two-thirds of both gay and heterosexual Australian men remove pubic hair, mostly to improve perceived attractiveness.
Other reasons cited for hair removal include: possible increased skin sensitivity, perceived cleanliness, experimentation, and to please a partner.

And while we’re here, let’s also put an end to the three most common myths about pubic hair removal:
  1. The rate of hair regrowth will not change because of hair removal.
  2. Hair coverage will not change in density; your body has a set number of hair follicles.
  3. Ingrown hairs are common but not impossible to avoid; everyone has different susceptibility to ingrown hairs.
From a public health standpoint, pubic hair doesn’t have any advantages, but the negative health effects associated with hair removal processes are of some concern. And despite recent attacks against hair removal, keeping pubic hair isn’t right for everyone. As long as you’re careful with the removal process, you can be just as healthy (or even more healthy!) with little or no pubic hair.

La percepcion definitivamente ha cambiado...este proximo articulo es del 2003:
http://www.greenleft.org.au/node/27894
But is body hair as unattractive as we are led to believe? A 1998 study by Washington University tested 115 female students and 86 male students on their reactions to a video of a model in a bikini. Half saw her with body hair, half without. Both men and women described the model with body hair as stronger, more aggressive, confident and active. The model without hair was seen as more sociable, happy, intelligent and only slightly more physically attractive. Viewers with feminist attitudes were more likely to have a positive view of body hair.
This illustrates two things. Perceptions of body hair are socially constructed and they are not unchangeable. The presence or absence of body hair is perceived to indicate traits that are stereotyped as masculine or feminine. Feminism has had a positive effect in breaking down stereotypes of "appropriate" traits for women and men. Feminists have generally rejected the practice of removing female body hair because they insist women should be judged by who they are, not what they look like. Despite the efforts of advertisers to convince women otherwise, some of these attitudes have stuck.
Women are more likely to be judged on their appearance and treated differently. The fact that men are now under scrutiny should make us double our efforts to free everyone from expensive, painful and needless forms of torture in the name of "beauty".
Salma Hayek as the Mexican artist Frida Kahlo in the recent film Frida, portrayed one of the world's most famous and sexy hairy women. The female stars of the current television adaptation of DH Lawrence's Sons and Lovers were told not to wax or shave, to stop going to the gym and to eat carbohydrates so that they would look authentic for the period.
The clock ticks in the world of fashion, and more natural hair is returning to the catwalks of Europe. We should point to these examples and use them to our advantage. However, against the barrage of advertising, this will not be enough to counteract the horror that people feel at their own natural body hair. Once again, we need to fight for a feminist perspective, one that judges all people on who they are, not on their designer body hair.

[4]  Si ya las mujeres se depilan enteritas, por que no lo mismo con los varones?
El mundo de la moda, los deportes, hacen ahora repulsivo el pelo en los hombres...
http://www.mamamia.com.au/health-wellbeing/male-body-image/
It’s a Friday night. I’m at a friend’s family function and the house has been divided in two. In the back half of the house, the adults are eating canapés and getting suitably sloshed. Meanwhile the kids and teens are in the front half of the house eating cheesy-macaroni and watching the Olympics. When I join them, I find them deep in discussion, debating one of life’s hairier little subjects: fury underarms.

Only it’s not women’s underarm hair they’re interested in. The kids are watching the men’s trampolining event. As each athlete’s name is called, the competitor steps forward, raises his arm to salute the crowd, and- much to the horror or relief of the kids I’m with – reveals his underarm-muff status.

One competitor has no sign of underarm hair. The teen boys nod approvingly. Another has shaved his underarms but has a tuft of chest hair sticking out the neck hole of his uniform. The boys comment that he should have shaved that off too.

Then one competitor raises his arm to reveal a thick slick of licorice black hair proudly displayed for all to see. The kids go positively mental. Or at least the boys do. The girls seem quite content to just watch the gymnastics.

Meanwhile I’m wondering how on earth these boys have gotten through life without ever seeing their dad’s underarms. And when did boys become so anxious about body hair anyway?

Before I go on I should clarify that not all teen boys would have had the same reaction. I’m sure that plenty wouldn’t bat an eyelid. But more and more I am beginning to notice a bizarre and somewhat disturbing trend with the teen boys I work with.

[5]  La Pornografia ha tenido influencia?
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.324872-Has-pornography-changed-your-perception-of-men-women?page=2
Ademas de la publicidad habia oido argumentado una vez que la pornografia y la depilacion de las mujeres fue creado en esa era de los 50.  Que a traves de los a/nos se fue convirtiendo en la norma.

Comparando peliculas...en peliculas como Porky's todas las chicas en las escenas en ba/nos etc. estaban todas velludas, sin afeitar.  Sin embargo, toda produccion reciente que he visto las chicas tienen brazilian wax o trimeado corto, tal como salio Helen Hunt en The Sessions (mencionado aqui: http://alcantarillaalquimica.blogspot.com/2012/12/306-video-closure-for-2012.html).

A fin de cuentas, creo que es una preferencia personal.  En mi caso considero estupido gastar tanto dinero para darse cera.  Ademas de lo increiblemente tedioso que es afeitarse las partes intimas.  Y si, me he afeitado en varias ocasiones cuando el pelo crece demasiado pero tiendo a odiar el ardor o picor que da cuando pega a volver a crecer el pelo...Quizas sea falta de costumbre...Como mi gata Roxie, que le gusta estar ba/nadita pero le aterra que la ba/ne...

Oh well, a la larga ajustare a lo que realmente le guste a mi pareja, cuando llegue el momento.  Aunque pensandolo bien, ya es hora de un recorte...demasiado pelo alla abajo lo que hace es que uno sude mucho.

Como dije, todo un issue peludo...Feliz Dia de Reyes, octavitas y las fiestas de SanSe...
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